Leadership Magazine - A kinder, gentler board meeting.

 

 

 

 

 

In a recent study as part of a project to revitalize church boards/committees, more than 600 board members were polled.  Nearly 1/3 of those polled left service because they felt tired, weary, and burned out.  Another 1/3 were hanging on because there was no one else to serve.  They had come asking for bread and were given a stone.

What frustrated them about serving on a church board or committee?  Here are some comments showing deep frustration:

How burned out I feel.  My last year was my most unproductive one.

How secular it is.  We spend more time discussing leaky toilets than why our church is slowly dying due to no growth or vision.

The lack of interest in pursuing God together.  Prayer is a formality, not a way to seek His purpose and plan.

The lack of concern for seeking Christ's guidance versus following our own personal agendas.

Can serving on a church board/committee truly be life-giving instead of life-draining?  Can board meetings actually become worshipful work?

The author of the article is Rev. Charles M. Olsen, director of Apart Lay Leaders in Kansas City, MO.  He has also written a book published by Alban Institute titled Transforming Church Boards into Communities of Spiritual Leaders.

Olsen has identified four practices that enrich a board.

1.   Story telling.  Stories bring a process of bonding into play...they bring life and energy.  Stories draw out commitment, form community, illuminate personal characteristics and gifts.  Often story telling at a board meeting can clear the air and aid listening, speeding up discussion on issues.  What type of stories are told...stories of life...stories related to the history of the congregation...special stories that relate the experiences of people.

2.   Biblical and theological reflection.  Theological and Biblical reflection trains board members in the basic beliefs, purpose, and mission of the church.  It might be taking a real life happening and tying it to a Bible section...it's intentionally taking time at meetings to seek out God's will in His Word.

3.   Prayerful discernment.  It's making prayer an intentional part of the meeting...it's pausing to pray before any decision...it's laying out a challenge and asking people to go home and pray about it before making the decision at the next meeting.  For key decisions, prayerful discernment can turn the board into a center of worshipful work.  Pray before, during, after, and between meetings.

4.   Visioning the future.  Vision can be a commitment to a direction with mid-course corrections dictated by the opportunities God provides.  It's studying God's Word and seeking His vision for us.  It's including that process as part of any meeting.  It's spending time seeking God's will for the future of the congregation.

Some of you might say that there won't be time for any business if we do all this stuff.  I have good news for you, we spend as much time on the day-to-day business of the operating of the church as we allot for...allot 3 hours and you'll spend it ALL...allot 90 minutes, and you will get it done.

I would encourage you to get the book...has a lot of valuable information that can be helpful as you look at conducting ministry boards and committees.

 

Here's another little story I found:

Lee Iacocca once asked legendary football coach Vince Lombardi what it took to make a winning team.  The book Iacocca records Lombardi's answer:

There are a lot of coaches with good ball clubs who know the fundamentals and have plenty of discipline but still don't win the game.  Then you come to the third ingredient: if you're going to play together as a team, you've got to care for one another.  You've got to love each other.  Each player has to be thinking about the next guy and saying to himself: If I don't block that man, Paul is going to get his legs broken.  I have to do my job well in order that he can do his.'

The difference between mediocrity and greatness. Lombardi said that night, is the feeling these guys have for each other.

In the healthy church, each Christian learns to care for others.  As we take seriously Jesus' command to love one another, we contribute to a winning team

 

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